Unwritten Korea

눈치 quiz

How good is your nunchi?

Ten everyday situations. Pick the response many Koreans would expect, then read why. Real people and families vary, so treat this as a way to learn the patterns, not a test of anyone's character. Nothing is saved or sent anywhere.

Situation 1 of 10

Your glass is empty at a dinner with your Korean team. The bottle is right in front of you.

Why: Pouring your own drink is avoided. Pour for a neighbor instead, and they will almost always return the favor. (Waiting works too, but serving others first is the smooth move.) Read more →

Situation 2 of 10

You pitch an idea to a Korean client. The manager smiles and says, "We’ll review it positively."

Why: "We’ll review it" is often a soft way to close a topic. Pressing for a clear answer in front of the group can cause loss of face. Follow up later, one-on-one. Read more →

Situation 3 of 10

A new acquaintance asks what year you were born.

Why: Age decides speech level, titles and who leads. Giving your birth year simply helps them know how to talk to you. Read more →

Situation 4 of 10

Your Korean host offers you more food. You’re a bit full.

Why: Offers are often made more than once, and the first "I’m fine" is expected. Accepting a little on the second or third offer is gracious. Read more →

Situation 5 of 10

You’re attending a coworker’s wedding (not a close friend). What goes in the envelope?

Why: Cash is the norm, and around 100,000 won is the most common amount when you attend and eat. Amounts with a 4 are avoided. Read more →

Situation 6 of 10

Your Korean coworker passes your desk and asks, "Did you have lunch?"

Why: It’s a greeting, a bit like "How are you?". A short answer and the same question back is perfect. Read more →

Situation 7 of 10

It’s 6:00 p.m., official finishing time. Your team leader is still working hard, and the rest of the team is too.

Why: Leaving on time is increasingly normal, but in many offices a polite word ("수고하셨습니다", "good work today") and a quick check before leaving keeps things smooth. Read more →

Situation 8 of 10

Dinner with three Korean friends ends. The oldest one stands up "to go to the bathroom" a bit early.

Why: Slipping away to pay before the group stands up is a classic move, especially by the oldest or the host. A thank-you (and treating them next time) is the right response. Read more →

Situation 9 of 10

On a crowded subway, an elderly woman boards and looks around for a seat.

Why: Respect for elders is strong, and priority seats are often left empty even on packed trains. Offering your seat is expected and appreciated. Read more →

Situation 10 of 10

Your Korean boyfriend or girlfriend says "아무거나" ("anything is fine") when you ask what to eat.

Why: "Anything" often hides a preference. Offering a few choices and reading the response is the nunchi answer, and a classic topic of Korean comedy. Read more →
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